Netizens flame “abusive” mother who forcefully covered child’s mouth and pushed his head against MRT seats

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A woman caught on camera forcefully covering the mouth of a child – believed to be her son – then pushing his head against the seats in an MRT compartment has been branded a child abuser by netizens online.

Videos of the incident were posted online by Facebook user Tyronne Tong, who alleged that the woman also subjected the child to a barrage of punches, off camera. Alleging that the woman appeared to be from China, Tong added:

“This is Singapore not China for god sake. There’s a difference between disciplining your child and abusing them at such a young age. Furthermore in public.
P.s this was going on for more than 10mins and I only manage to get 2 clips of it. And throughout the 10minutes she was literally sending barrage of punches to the kid. Let me enforce, PUNCHES NOT SLAPS.”

 

Posted by Tyronne Tong on Thursday, 7 December 2017

In the video, the child can be seen tearfully speaking to the woman who suddenly grabs his face. She also appears to swing her hand towards him but the boy appears to block it.

Tong alleged: “The kid wasn’t misbehaving, the kid just kept on telling the mum not to beat him and he wants to stay with her and the mum reacted the way she did as seen in the video.”

He further added that many passengers tried to intervene and scold the woman but she simply continued disciplining the child.

The two videos, which were posted online last Friday, have gone viral with over 200,000 views collectively. It has also sparked intense debate between netizens who echo Tong’s sentiments that this is child abuse and those who defended the woman’s actions.

A majority of netizens expressed concerns over the way the child was treated and noted how the child was flinching in fear in the videos. One netizen said:

 

“True enough. But there’s always other ways to discipline a child no matter how hard it is. But never ever ever ever do it in public. It will affect the child mentally. It might not be now but when he grows up, it might cause a trauma even small little things like shouting at them in public. Get help. In Singapore, there are courses and specialist to help deal with difficult children.”

Others have opined that this is a domestic matter and that the parent has every right to discipline her child as she sees fit. A netizen asserted:

 

“You call this abuse? You have no idea what my mum did to me back then. Chairs and things nearby were thrown at me and my sisters, got pinched till blue-black.. slapped our faces.. without all that, I won’t be who I am right now.
“I gotta thank her for all that. I am a mother myself.. my children are like small monsters. No matter how soft and nice you speak to them, they won’t obey or listen. It’s tiring and frustrating for mothers like us. 
“Which mothers don’t love their own child? We went through labour to give birth to them.. why would we wanna see them hurt? Yes, we are angry at that point in time. you may never know when she’s home when the kid is sleeping.. she would say to him.. sorry for treating you that way but you gotta learn. 
“It’s for his own good. Once you’re a mother.. kids are your priorities. You want the best for them. Don’t expect everyone to be the same in disciplining their children.”

This is Singapore not China for god sake.There’s a difference between disciplining your child and abusing them at such…

Posted by Tyronne Tong on Thursday, 7 December 2017

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11 comments

    1. Mia Hoyes says:

      Discipline own youths at home by scolding = will get Police visit claiming “neighbours” complain “child abuse” at 3pm… they were even advised to call the police with their mobile phone, while they are 16 and towering over the adults, totally able to fight back with the elbows, kicks or even rude words.

      Online G surveillance readily joins in the blunders of profanity, yet can’t tell the difference between 16 years olds vs. Child. Too busy having affair with comrades’ husbands?! Ivory tower of satellite center

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    William Smith ( User Karma: 0 ) says:

    Basic psychology for parents or bosses: rules with relationship equals compliance. Rules without relationship equals defiance.

    If child or employee defies reasonable rules, I suggest you look long and hard at the relationship rather than blame the other party only. Shortcut is to rule by fear; resulting in the incident above.

    Do what I say, or else – I’d say that’s a good lesson to prep your child for a life of mismanagement and abuse.

  2. Are you sure, they are from China? With the one child family, the concern is the exact opposite, i.e. the pampering of children into little princes or princesses instead of abuse. How bias can you?

  3. Assume indeed really act of the New Citizen/Resident parent. what to do? Sgporeans voted PAP so strongly that they even got more percentage of Votes compared to 2011 GE and worse ALWAYS commands 2/3 majority in Parliamentary seats (which is most important) than % of votes for PAP/for Opposition which means nothing if NO seats are Won. PAP can bring in as many new Residents and PRs and Citizens to further secure their political position and also compete more for Jobs and reduce your salaries further. Be grateful to your own Karma and lack of political brains.

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